17 Revealing Signs a Man is Seriously Attracted to You

Discover the signs that he’s attracted to you on a deeper level, from body language to verbal cues. Here are 17 clear indicators that signal he’s truly turned on by you.

Increased Eye Contact

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When a man is turned on, he’s more likely to maintain longer and more intense eye contact. This intense gaze signifies his interest in you and creates a connection that feels both intimate and powerful.

Body Language

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His body language can reveal his attraction. He may lean in closer, touch his face or neck, or mirror your movements. These subconscious actions indicate he’s drawn to you and can’t help but respond physically.

He Compliments Your Appearance

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If he frequently compliments your appearance or makes comments about how attractive he finds you, it’s a sign that he’s really, really into you. These compliments demonstrate his appreciation for your looks and the (carnal) effect you have on him.

He Touches You Often

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A man who is turned on will find reasons to touch you, whether it’s a gentle brush against your arm or a playful nudge. These physical gestures are definitely meant to signal his attraction.

Love Panky explains that, “If he’s touching your lower back when holding the door open for you, hugging you, brushing your hair out of your face, well, this man is into you.”

He’s Nervous or Stammers

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If you see him becoming nervous or stammering in your presence, it may be an endearing sign that your presence has a significant impact on him. More than anything, it shows that you make him feel flustered – and excited.

Bad Girl’s Bible says, “If a guy seems nervous when talking to you, there’s a good chance he’s feeling the sexual energy”

He Gives You a Genuine Smile

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A genuine smile, one that reaches his eyes and lights up his face, is a strong indicator that he’s turned on by you. This warm expression shows he’s enjoying your company and finds you attractive.

Increased Heart Rate

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If you notice his heart rate increases when you’re near or touching him, it’s a sign he’s physically reacting to your presence. This involuntary response signifies his attraction and excitement.

He Attempts to Impress You

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A man who cares for you will often try to impress you by showcasing his skills, talents, or achievements. In doing so, he’s probably trying to demonstrate his worth and attract your attention.

Lingering Glances

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If he steals lingering glances at you, even when you’re not looking, it’s a clear sign he’s attracted to you. These stolen looks reveal his deep-rooted desire.

Subtle Flirting

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Subtle flirting, such as teasing or playful banter, can be an indication that he’s turned on. This lighthearted interaction allows him to express his attraction in a fun and engaging way.

Raised Eyebrows

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When a man is attracted to you, he may raise his eyebrows briefly as he looks at you. This involuntary facial expression is a telltale sign that he’s excited by your presence.

Dilated Pupils

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Dilated pupils can be a sign of attraction and arousal. If you notice his pupils widen when he looks at you, it’s a strong indicator that he’s nursing a very special feeling.

He Fixes His Appearance

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If you see him adjusting his clothing, fixing his hair, or straightening his posture when you’re around; it’s probably because he wants to look his best for you.

Science of People notes that, “Unbuttoning the top of his shirt, adjusting his suit, straightening his socks, and readjusting his tie can be subtle preening behaviors to look for. Men want to look clean and powerful around others, unless they’re going for that rebellious look.”

Listens Attentively

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When a man is turned on, he will listen attentively to what you have to say. This focused attention demonstrates his interest in getting to know you better.

Protective Instinct

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If he’s into you, a man may display protective instincts, such as offering his jacket when you’re cold or walking you to your car. These gestures show he cares about your well-being.

Laughs at Your Jokes

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If he laughs at your jokes, even the not-so-funny ones, it’s a sign he’s attracted to you. Laughter is a powerful way to connect, and his willingness to engage in humor shows that he wants to keep seeing you.

Shows Off His Vulnerable Side

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When a man cares for you, he may feel comfortable sharing his vulnerable side. This can include opening up about his fears, insecurities, or personal experiences. By revealing his authentic self, he’s demonstrating trust and attraction.

Initiates Physical Contact

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A man who is turned on by you will often initiate physical contact, like holding your hand, putting his arm around you, or giving you a hug. These gestures indicate his desire to be close to you and create a deeper connection.

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