23 Questions Men Want To Ask Women but Are Too Scared To Ask

Dive into the uncharted waters of the male psyche as we explore the questions that linger in the minds of men everywhere. Someone recently asked, “Men, what is something about women you are curious about but too afraid to ask?” And we’ve listed the top 23 answers below.

Why Do You Steal My Food?

Eating Food They Said They Didn_t Want
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“You mean, why am I eating OUR food that just so happens to be on your plate?”

“Because it smells good, and you have it. We are very much like cats or crows.”

“It’s me trying to eat healthy but not having any self-control when my partner indulges in junk food in front of me.”

What’s With All The Pillows?

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“Make a pillow nest! As a man, I can confirm that women are 100% right. Pillow nest = joy.”

“They make this glorious nest so I can sleep on my side without my hips tightening overnight, support behind my back and shoulders, support against my breasts, good positioning for my arms and legs. Comfy!”

Do You Wear Heels For The Clip-clop Noise?

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“Do you walk on the pavement like you’re the main character in a movie? Because that’s what I’d do if I wore heels; is there a woman out there whose brain is on my wavelength?”

“Especially on marble floors and in a big open room like a lobby. The echoes are incredible.”

Are Sanitary Pads Like Wearing Diapers?

Are Sanitary Pads Like Wearing Diapers?
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“Do you change pads when it’s full, half, or less? That must be uncomfortable!?”

“Pads are designed to trap moisture away from the skin, so for the most part, they are dry. Wet diaper feeling happens when they’re full, and it feels gross.”

Do You Like Being Asked Out?

Do You Like Being Asked Out?
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“I mean, if they are just being genuine and straightforward, not sleazy.”

“If it’s someone I already know, I don’t mind if he is forward and asks me out – that confidence is attractive and something I’d envy.”

“If it’s someone I don’t know or just met, I prefer if he gives me his contact information rather than asking for mine. I’ll most likely say no if it is the latter.”

Why Are You All Obsessed With True Crime?

Why Are You All Obsessed With True Crime?
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“If you can’t beat them, join them; we’re all gathering information to consume the entire male species.”

“We’re indoctrinated early by our mothers, who also liked true crime.”

“I like to pretend I’m Olivia Benson in my head and what I’d do to solve the crime.”

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Does Sitting On The Toilet Instantly Make You Need A Poop?

Does Sitting On The Toilet Instantly Make You Need A Poop?
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“Not all pee-pee times are poo-poo times, but all poo-poo times are also pee-pee times.”

“Not really. I usually go to the bathroom, knowing what I plan to do in there. Sitting down never makes me feel like I need to do anything extra!”

“That’s why I always bring my phone with me; you never know when that number 1 is going to evolve into a number 2.”

Where Do You Actually Want To Eat?

Where Do You Actually Want To Eat?
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“We do the “you pick three, I pick one.” She names three places she would be ok with eating at, and I pick one out of the three she listed. Then, next time, we switch.”

“My wife and I do the veto system. One of us offers a suggestion. The other can accept or veto it. If you veto, you MUST offer an alternative.”

Do You Get Pee Shivers?

Do You Get Pee Shivers?
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“Yes, we do. All the time.”

“I honestly had never heard of this until recently. Apparently, it’s common among men but not so much with us females.”

“Not sure why, but women who get pee shivers are in the minority, but it does happen.”

How Can I Be More Approachable?

How Can I Be More Approachable?
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“Smile or at least look pleasant, open body language (don’t cross your arms over your chest, don’t have hands on hips), don’t be glued to your phone, be aware, smile at kids, dress nicely and use your manners when interacting with staff.”

“Eye contact and smiling; if she likes what she sees, she will smile back.”

Should I Get Extra Fries?

Should I Get Extra Fries?
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“I cannot state this enough; always get the extra fries.”

“Yes, extra fries. Order anything with meat in it, and it’s all yours. Anything meatless with cheese on it, and I am taking a bite. You were warned.”

“If you know what she likes, just get extra, even if she says she doesn’t want anything. Just the smell of food stimulates hunger.”

What Do You Look At When Checking A Man Out?

What Do You Look At When Checking A Man Out
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“This is another of those things that vary from woman to woman. It’s the same things men look at. A handsome face, body shape (varies), hair, and clothes.”

“If he is groomed, does he have styled hair, clean fingernails, and fresh skin? Are his clothes nice enough? Not just clean. Is he standing straight? Does he care about his appearance?”

How can I help someone who’s on their period?

How can I help someone who's on their period
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“Don’t treat it as something disgusting. Keep a trashcan in your bathroom. Keep painkillers on hand.”

“My husband is amazing with this. He rubs my back, makes sure I have my heating pad and meds and makes me some tea. He lets me know I am supported.”

How Do You Smell So Good All The Time?

How Do You Smell So Good All The Time
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“My lady can get back from the gym, or from working in the garden, or literally any high-exertion activity, and she never smells bad.”

“Oestrogen makes you sweat less and have a less intense smell. Testosterone promotes a very musky, heavy smell and causes more intense sweating. Science!”

What’s The Best Way To Ask For A Date?

What's The Best Way To Ask For A Date
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“Have a plan, even if it’s just a picnic in the park. It is painful when a guy asks me out and then asks what I want to do. Follow up with suggestions. Options are fine to have, and of course, you should go somewhere you can both enjoy.”

“Always try having a small conversation first and then ask in a straightforward way.”

Why Do You Put Your Hand On My Stomach In Every Photo?

Why Do You Put Your Hand On My Stomach In Every Photo
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“We want to make sure whoever is looking at the picture knows this is my romantic partner, not my friend. He is mine!”

“Because I love him so much, I wish I could get him pregnant.”

“Same reason you put your arm around her shoulders.”

Do You Notice When Men Need To Adjust Themselves?

Do You Notice When Men Need To Adjust Themselves
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“We notice, but we don’t care at all. We get it.”

“Of course we notice. It’s normalized, but I still think it’s a little awkward.”

“Yes. But it’s like when girls get a wedgie. Trust me. We aren’t judging.”

Does Creepy Just Mean Ugly?

Does Creepy Just Mean Ugly
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“You could definitely be creepy regardless of looks. Some attractive men are creepy too.”

“Vibes are a real thing. I don’t care if he looks like George Clooney in the 90s; if he gives off serial killer vibes, I’m avoiding him like a rattlesnake.”

“You stop being attractive when you start being creepy. Ugliness is irrelevant.”

Why So Many Trinkets?

Why So Many Trinkets
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“We get gifted so many little trinkets we want to display them, and it’s nice to have something fun and cute to look at.”

“Trinkets make me happy, like a crow. Shiny & small things = happy.”

“We’re secretly cats.”

How Should I Act To Improve Her Bad Mood?

How Should I Act To Improve Her Bad Mood
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“I am that partner. Trust me; nobody wants to be in a rotten mood. I wish my partner understood me better, and maybe pamper me a little bit. I crave attention sometimes but feel unable to communicate that need. Make sure they know you’re there for them.”

“Her temper may actually be a symptom of anxiety rather than a trigger. Irritability was the number one clue that my anxiety was worsening.”

Do You Memorize Your Menstrual Cycle?

Do You Memorize Your Menstrual Cycle
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“Not usually. The menstrual cycle is 28-35 days long, but everyone is different. Some women are like clockwork, whereas other women have to guess a bit more.”

“No, but I had an app that used to track it, and it was very, very consistent.”

“I’m 23, and I’ve only just started actually checking when it’s due. I can’t imagine any woman memorizing it off the top of her head. Life’s way too hectic for that.”

What Topic Of Conversation Should I Start With?

What Topic Of Conversation Should I Start With
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“Be chill and pick a general topic, nothing personal or political. Make the conversation an interesting exchange. Avoid disagreements or intense debate. A sense of humor is a win.”

“Ask about our career or interests. If I’m single and I think someone is attractive, I try to get to know them as a person; it usually works great.”

How Do You Cope With All That Blood?

How Do You Cope With All That Blood
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“We manage because there’s no other choice. It’s not something we can opt out of.”

“Period blood doesn’t really feel like real blood somehow.”

“Menstrual blood is in a different category in my mind. I can’t handle blood in general, but period blood is fine. I guess it’s my subconscious doing me a favor.”

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