Often, women’s concerns regarding their appearance, personality, or fashion choices may not carry as much weight for most men. An internet user recently asked, “What insecurities do you often see in women you couldn’t care less about?” Here are the 19 best replies.
Periods
“Your period doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I’ll change the sheets and go right back to bed; you can wear one of my pants while I wash yours. Need tampons? Tell me what you want, and I’ll run to the store. It’s 100% natural.”
“My girlfriend had a mini meltdown and cried over bleeding on my sheets.”
Pores
“What is with women’s obsession with their pores?! I don’t think I’ve ever looked at a woman and thought she’d be hot if it weren’t for those pores.”
“Do you know how much the average western girl is pestered during her formative years by ads selling pore-minimizing agents? We hear it so much that large pores make you look old; it’s drilled into them to keep them clean and small.”
Upper Lip Hair
“We do notice sometimes, but we hardly care. In my opinion, shaving is worse just because I can feel how sharp the hair is, even though it’s very thin, but I am happy she does what makes her feel comfortable.”
“In my opinion, don’t be worried about hair on your face. If you can’t help that, don’t be embarrassed about trying to groom it. You do you.”
Being Funny
“Women worry about their sense of humor. If you’re funny, cool. If you’re not, then you don’t have to force it. And please don’t hide your weird sense of humor. When we’re with our male friends, not everyone in our group is funny. There are usually 1 or 2 really funny guys, and the rest of us just keep the momentum of the jokes going.”
“Some women think it’s not feminine to be funny, which is just crazy.”
Double Chins
“I had a girlfriend who wouldn’t go on top because of how she perceived her face looking from that angle. Honestly, I never even noticed it at the time.”
“Once I turned my phone camera on, and it was pointing towards me as I was looking down at it, and I saw what I would look like on top. It’s burned into my memory, and it’s not something I want anyone to see. It was hideous.”
Computer Skills
“Women typically do not think they are doing as well as the men in computing courses. As a CS teacher, I now tell all excelling women that they are doing amazing, especially in lower-level courses. This has helped keep women from dropping out too early.”
“Female mathematician here. Totally agree.”
Wearing An Outfit Twice
“If you just enjoy clothes, fashion, etc., then it’s probably not a big deal. If repeating outfits makes you anxious or uncomfortable, that’s maybe a bad thing.”
“I would be surprised if men actually cared about this considering they tend to wear the same three shirts and two pairs of pants.”
Shoe Style and Color
“A girl could probably wear a black shoe and a brown shoe, and I wouldn’t even notice.”
“Just please, not those shoes with individual toes.”
Bottom Size
“Do these jeans make my bum look fat? Yes, thank goodness; it’s awesome!”
“The jeans? No. Your bum makes your bum look fat. Own it.”
Freckles
“My wife is SUPER self-conscious about her freckles. And I’ve known other women to be too. I love them. I think they’re super cute and wouldn’t change a thing.”
“I think freckles are so pretty and extremely youthful. She knows girls are drawing those on now with makeup, right? She has a look that other girls are chasing.”
Eating Messily
“Stop caring how you look when eating something. You ravish those chicken wings, girl!”
“True! I panicked when my then-boyfriend invited me to a rib shack. Long story short, I ordered the ribs, actually told him the words “Don’t judge me,” and dug in. He said he knew right then that I was the one. We’re now married.”
Farting
“My husband just shakes his head and says, “What a pig.” All in good humor, of course.”
“I’m in a long-term relationship but have never let rip in front of him. It’s not that I haven’t tried; it just won’t come out.”
Social Media Appearances
“The constant need for validation, approval, and reassurance leads to all sorts of problems—personally for her and in terms of a relationship.”
“I’ve known girls who will delete pictures if they don’t get over a certain amount of likes. Strangers liking their pictures gives them an ego boost or something. I don’t get it.”
Scars
“My crush comes to the pool I work at and has a huge one on her stomach; I love it.”
“This was nice to see. I have a gnarly scar on my neck that’s always on display. I try not to be self-conscious about it, but it can be difficult.”
Eyebrows
“We might notice if one is missing. Might. But we sure won’t notice the shape or how unkempt they are.”
“I literally had no clue that Whoopi Goldberg had no eyebrows until somebody told me.”
Showering
“Stop with the shower shuffle duet, like a game of three-card-monty where you move us around, distract us with some soapy body parts, and then send us on our way so you can wash the interesting parts without us seeing.”
“Why not just wash each other? In the early days of my current relationship, I made it a point to do just this, as my ex and I never once showered together, and it bugged me.”
Burping
“The most turned-on I ever was by my ex was when she finally burped in front of me. Quiet girl, but she had so much power.”
“I hear that’s an insecurity that some girls have, but, in my experience, there’s not been a girl I’ve known yet that has that problem. In fact, they fart and burp as much as me and the guys do, and to be honest, it’s kind of scary at times.”
Thigh Gaps
“So your thighs touch. That just means my head’s more comfortable when it’s in between them.”
“My girlfriend has the opposite problem; she’s self-conscious that she HAS a thigh gap. I try to tell her it’s silly, that a lot of girls would love that, and that I don’t really care at all one way or the other.”
Breast Imperfections
“There are no breast abnormalities in my eyes. I love them all. Nothing is weird enough that I’m not going to be attracted to breasts.”
“I cannot agree more. I think women are so used to seeing their bodies every single day that they start to notice their “imperfections” and psych themselves out.”
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