A man asked the internet, “Women of Reddit, what instantly turns you on about men and why”? Well, we couldn’t resist going through all the answers, so here they are.
A smile
“When my boyfriend smiles. He’s got this specific smile when he’s truly happy and having a good time, and every time I see it, I simultaneously melt and want to jump his bones.”
Humor
“My boyfriend made me laugh non-stop on our first date, and I melted pretty fast.”
“If a guy is funny, that usually indicates that he is a good communicator. Try to use that to be better at flirting. Get practice.”
Genuine kindness
“Sincerity is definitely a huge one for me.”
Scent
“Scent is probably the single biggest instant turn on for me.”
“When they smell good…just their natural odor. I’m seeing this guy and he just smells so good it’s insane.”
Good Manners
“Say thanks to the drive-thru cashier and I’m in love.”
“I react pretty strongly to guys with good manners(holding doors, please and thank you’s).”
Strong Forearms
“Don’t care about muscles anywhere else, but toned forearms are beautiful.”
“Strong forearms in a rolled up black shirt to be shallow.”
Good With Babies
“There is something primal that attracts me to men who are good with children or animals.”
“Seeing them play with kids, or be a good daddy/uncle. It’s like catnip.”
“A man holding and playing with a baby. Just him smiling will be the purest.”
Facial Hair
“When he goes without shaving a few days. Mmm.”
Patience
“I love kind, patient men.”
The Ability To Explain Something Without Being Pretentious About It
“My current boyfriend minored in theoretical mathematics, and he explains math theorems to me when they’re relevant. I love learning things from people and find it very attractive.”
Likes Animals
“When he has a cat, and the cat clearly is very comfortable with him and loves him a lot omg.”
“I’m pretty sure the way I treat our cat army is part of the reason my wife and I are still together after 16 years.”
Confidence
“I love quiet confidence. They know who they are and they’re just comfortable with themselves they don’t try to prove anything.”
Nice Hands
“When I met one of my exes she said I had nice hands, I moisturize and maintain my nails because another ex said it was a big deal. Women have the inside info.”
In Touch With His Feminine Side
“When very outwardly masculine-looking men can confidently express traditionally feminine charms/energy/grace they’re totally magnetic to me.”
“This is an absolute panty dropper! There is nothing sexier than a man who is comfortable with being in touch with his feminine side.”
Kindness When No One Is Watching
“Giving money /food to a homeless person, helping someone when they drop something, holding the door open for others(men and women), letting someone merge in front of them in traffic, etc.”
“Small everyday behaviors that demonstrate a habit of kindness.”
Passionate
“I think a soft guy with dreams is always hot. If you have a dream you’re constantly chasing and working to make it real that just makes me dream and fantasize about the life we could make together.”
Effective Leadership/ Taking Charge Of A Situation
“agreed!”
“Yesssss.”
Intelligence
“I like to be challenged and think more deeply about the world.”
Not Having An Inflated Ego
“Some ego is obviously desirable as you don’t want a pushover, but understanding that you’re not a god reincarnate is good.”
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